early school for my children?

im not suppose to write this entry.i should relax and chilled myself after days cramming my fragile brain to work overboard.furthermore,my dearest husband is away.have some work commitment in Penang.resulting me and my 2 extremely busy and kind-of-x-reti-duduk-diam-walau-seminit children stranded on my parents'house.(ni pon nasib baik the grandpa&ma treat them with some nice weekend outing!yuhuhuuu!!got my me time)

discussing about early childhood education with some friends.this one friend,who use to live a lavish life,mind u really rich,with a bungalow in bukit jambul,sports cars,hermes handbag(ni yg x tahan ni!!nk gak!),givenchy,et al.due to some glitches and economic slump,they have to lead a modest life.talking about the children education.she sent her son to (guess pleaseee...) tabika kemas.im not going to downgraded or belittle it but i want to stress it,im not dare to send my children there.i prefer PASTI,where the surrounding is more islamic.she said,she wants to test and give a try to the government kindi.i said it is nothing wrong with it.u can try it and sadly,there is no english time in the kindi.and at the same time most of the students are malay.

another news, one of my friend is interested to open a playschool for children aged 0-4 years old.included nursery and learning.we both agreed that parents nowadays are willing an exorbitant fees just to let their little one to be the best.some take an exagarate steps by ignoring the cognitive capability of the young lady/mister by 'pushing' them excelling in nursery exams? pardon?nursery exam,what the heck is that?nursery suppose to be a very relax and the stage you nurture the basic 3M.u don hev to push them so that they get A.(yg skoolnye pon satu,instead of grade why dun u just use pass/fail?)..but the parents will..everyday pon sanggup2-3 hours ajar ank umo 6 bulan A,B,C..one thing parents always forget,children especially at the very young age,learn best during playtime!it stimulated the cognitive in the other way!

then,whats the conclusion?the best is to teach them by ourselves.im doing it a step by step.but i saw the need of socializing.i just couldnt find parents who intersetd to form a group so that,well be able to meet once a week to let our children learn how to socialize.we r thinking of enrolling nuha to school.but yet,still considering......